i agree with a lot of this. the problem is that people seem to both want to play around and have fun with multiple partners, and yet want a solid and consistent relationship once they find someone they really like. well you're never going to find that if most people are in it to, "play the game". i'm too old to play the game at 37. i'm looking for something serious at this point.
Society has fucked up a lot of people. Women are promoted and celebrated for sloot gonna sloot. The difference being fertility and that, women hit top form much sooner then men. Men hit it much later. Its a zero sum game. Winner takes all.
Women want to shake their ass and have premarital sex. Men do too only, women are gatekeepers of sex, and are flaunting it. Worse, being a sociopath gets you laid more than conventional provider male behavior in short because of the single mom society we live in. Women get the get out of jail free card. Sloot gonna sloot, then it sob story when hitting the wall, its seeking beta cuck to raise her babies and still marry her before she jumps back on the carousel riding cock again while extracting his resources.
One of the biggest problems is that, men do not know how to compete with women, and being beta is clearly not the solution. Posturing and being a bully is not the way either so, how does one proceed? Age is just a number playboy. 37 is the new 20. You have no biological clock. You're not hitting the wall the way women do when having squandered her 20s chasing alphas and bad boys. You can still be pursuing much younger girls contrary to the rubbish society pedals.
The hard part is that, your boys get married, engaged, wifed up, and domesticated. More think its WHAT I MUST DO rather than marching to the beat of your own drum. Living for you. Picking and choosing. IS MONOGAMY what you truly seek or was it a archetype you were taught? I ask this myself all the time. Personally, I think it is a structure made to sustain society by keeping it orderly. You have women late 20s or early 30s going nuts like they're teen girls sloot gonna sloot and cucks are suppose to clean up the mess. Live your life but, my advice is, DON'T DO IT!
I highly recommend you playboy it up. You have options and you PICK FROM CHOICE > SCARCITY. Most dudes settle for the first cute B squater that looks their way. For me, its more about what she is willing to give and if it is not her youth, if it is not her best when on top form, I DO NOT WANT PERIOD!
There is a dude 40 + dating a hot young girl I know. Age 26. At 37, I am not saying hangout at the bars and clubs all the time. I am saying, hit up girls everywhere. Break RAPPORT. WUDDUP @ BISH EVERYWHERE. A bit of small talk, some familiarity, and now you got real convo. Drop invites. Acquire digits. GO BALLS DEEP.
If you still want marriage, monogamy, one pussy forever after having CHOICE, be my guest. come from a place of choice. 37 is just an excuse, its a wives tale, and social conditioning. Its real. Its why at 30 + the corportate/business world frowns upon the single male who is CRUSHING it at life versus beaten path of white picket fence. Obviously, be discreet. Don't flaunt it. get girls. I pick up chicks in coffee shops, in a fucking grocery store, gym, lifeguards, online, bars, clubs, etc.
What do you want in this life? If its MARRIAGE, go for it but, do it on your terms. Have options. Its one of the quickest ways to weed out games. Girl is flaky, whats her sister saying? Whats her friends saying? I owe nothing to nobody. Out for #1. Do you until its no longer just about you.