How can I help my Friend not be a Creep | Page 5

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  1. Pugilistic Black Belt

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    I just heard this not witnessed first hand, but apparently he invited a girl over to his place and tried to play strip poker. But she didn't really want to strip when she lost so he tried to forced some of her clothes off and she freaked out and ran out, and he chased after her. Now could be bullshit but I never had a good feeling about the guy. I haven't seen him around after I heard that story.
     
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    Damn that is crazy..
     
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    There was one right around the corner from that luxury mall on Yeuido Island. Times Square Mall. You come out of the parking garage and turn the wrong way and BOOM. Glass wall and girls behind them. TS Mall is also the one where the prostitute had a sit in protest because the mall and the stores were refusing service to prostitutes.

    Or girls straight up lie. I work in a convenience store three town over, that kind of stuff. That's pretty much wherever my mind went whenever I met a young woman who was living well beyond her means, because it was the most likely possibility.
     
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  4. MMA MASTER White Belt

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    Lmao I have a solution.... it's called hiring an escort.... the best decision in my life. I was a virgin at the time and really wanted to fuck needed that V card removed.... I was in Thailand so I went to Bangla road, and got myself an escort then got laid. And guess what it improved my self confidence, and I had no guilt like some people have when hiring an escort, lastly I could tell people that I got laid. But I didn't need to mention that it was an escort.
     
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  5. mushishi A is a, a is a, should I save her?

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    Dude, where you hanging out that you meet all these dark underworld figures? LOL


    i remember touching a girls tits once and it felt like a bag of sand.
     
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    You guys gotta start peacocking, using false time constraints, and playing the numbers game.

    But if you choose to go the route you're talking about going... you need to remember that a pimp's love is very different than that of a square's love.
     
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    Dude is this that same guy you said that is a social tard' and cock blocked you before?
     
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    Srs response. If he's past his mid 20's I'd say he's probably a gonner. Sounds like a megacreep and unless you look like Brad Pitt, Tyson Beckford, etc women have a huge aversion to that shit.

    Genetic gifts aside I believe attitude calibrates a lot of what can make you successful with women. If you think he's mildly autistic I can only imagine what women think when he walks in a room, if they notice him at all. Has obvious scarcity mentality by requesting this of you and that makes vagina dryer than the Gobi. He would have to change his whole way of thinking and if he's set in his ways I doubt it happens.
     
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  10. Pugilistic Black Belt

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    Oh Hell no. My no game friend also hates that guy. As bad as my friend is socially, he's not as bad as that cockblock guy.

    He's 35... yeah I think he's incapable of changing at this point. I agree, the fact he has the mentality to even think about proposing this is the fundamental issue here.
     
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    He needs to go to one of those asian massage parlors.
     
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  12. Pugilistic Black Belt

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    I know a girl who told me she was interested in meeting one of my friends so I texted on a group chat I am with a bunch of guys, including my friend in the OP, that I would give this girl's contact to anybody who was interested. Nobody seemed to really care except for him, who immediately jumped at the chance. "Give me give me her number!" I doubted that he would get anywhere with the girl but I gave it to him anyway. I wasn't thinking about the reward, but he actually bought me a couple drinks. I wasn't going to turn down free alcohol so I accepted. So here's my step forward into pimping.

    It's getting a little frustrating with this guy's total lack of social awareness. One of our newer friends is getting fed up with the stupid cocky shit he says that completely contradicts his utter meekness when it comes to talking to women. And last night, a really good female friend of mine send me screenshots of the creepy texts this dude's been sending her. It's absolutely ridiculous the shit he says. My friend straight up told him that she wants him to stop sending him creepy texts and a talk to her like a normal person. This isn't the first time he's creeped out one of my female friends. I'm thinking of having an honest talk with this dude and telling him that the girl showed me the texts, but I'm not enthusiastic about it because I have tried talking to him about this kind of stuff before and I don't think he will actually listen and change.
     
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    Try talking to him and paint a harsh picture that the guy is going to spend rest of his life without women if he keeps that shit up, a proverbial slap in the face to get him to wake up. Maybe get the guy to see a shrink.

    Not sure about confronting him about the texts he has sent to your female friend, it would out her and might trigger him to antagonize her further. You could try to ask him to show you what he has texted to women so you can give tips or in this case get to tell him that those are some creepy shit.
     
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    What the hell did he say?
     
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    Send me her contact info. My texting game is good and I'm not like your friend at all, lol.
     
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  16. Pugilistic Black Belt

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    I can recall countless many instances of this guy saying weird, creepy shit to girls. In this case, he kept making jokes about how he's going to spank her and how he wanted to have a threesome with another girl who is this girl's friend. Mind you, he barely knows this girl. She at first ignored his jokes but he kept making them so she straight up told him to stop it. And this dude started backtracking and started making excuses about how he's just playing around. I am kind of tempted to post the chat here but it is extremely cringe-worthy... The funny thing is that this girl is white, and he has repeatedly told me he doesn't like white girls. This isn't the first time I've had a girl complain to me about his advances.

    Now there are subtle ways to make sexual jokes but this guy's remarks come out of the left field. Sometimes he makes jokes that irritates other guys as well. He's made jokes about fucking our(my friends and I) sisters or our future daughters, calling all women bitches including our family members, etc. Sure we're friends and we all make fucked up jokes from time to time but he does it without any sense of comedic timing or subtlety. Just makes you go, "WTF dude..."

    I've talked about shrinks with him in the past since I used to see one. But like with every suggestion I make, he has an excuse ready. He said they don't help him, based on one experience he had when he was like 13.

    So I just had a chat with another buddy about this dude. Let's just call him Nigel for convenience. My other buddy also got a text from a girl he knows about Nigel's creepiness. He invited her to party with us on the weekend but she doesn't want to because of Nigel. His creepiness and lack of social awareness is now cutting into our social life. I figured it's a far better move to at least directly talk to him about his weirdness and see if he can change, or at least get him to try to talk to women like a normal person. I and some other guys have always given him tips from time to time, and he has asked for them as well, but he has never taken them to heart. But I also never have actually sat him down to talk to him about this shit. I will talk about the texts he has sent not to my friend, but pretty much every female he comes in contact with. Because there some simple things he can do differently that I think will make a huge difference.

    I would like to steer this thread to the direction of helping my dear friend. I don't think I can turn him into a player, since I'm not that myself, but I would like to at least make him able to socialize like a normal human being. I know you can't really help people who don't want to be, but I am hoping I can convince him to change for his sake. How do you guys suggest I approach this?
     
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  18. Pugilistic Black Belt

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    Lol. I just picked Nigel because I picture a weird, socially awkward british guy. My friend's not British though
     
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    Oh no, one of those huh? I was going to say pay a prostitute to pick him up in a bar but that may make it worse. Do you know any chicks that would break it down for him that women aren't just sperm receptacles and if you want them to want to serve that purpose for you he's going 180° in the wrong direction? At the very least be honest that the stupid shit he's saying is scaring all the women away.
     
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  20. Secret Agent TONY CRACKULA

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    I'd watch the hell out of BUS STOP WIVES if it starred Anna Kendrick in a pivoting role.

    Incidentally, I have no advice.
     
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