The vast majority of black culture in 2018 is about thug culture. It's about "thots" and "laying up in the trap", flashing expensive jewelry and shoes on instagram and all that sort of shit. I have met some black people that are outliers, but outliers don't invalidate the norm. The vast majority of black people I have come into contact with in my life subscribe to this culture. My friend I went to the club with two weekends ago is one of these people. He drives a new car, while making 12$ an hour, has numerous pairs of 2 and 300 dollar shoes. His entire instagram is filled with pics of him getting high or flashing his objects, he lives in a shit hole apartment by the police station, and he smokes an insane amount of pot daily. But you know what? He's a cool dude, I like kicking it with him from time to time. He's from DC, he served in the air force, we have good conversations. Peoples feelings about race are much more complex than people like you realize. You just want to boil extremely complex ideas and emotions down to "hurr durr you're a racist!!!".