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Why does matter even if its still fucked up either way.
If she cheated, he found out and fucked her up, still terrible, he still needs to go to jail.
But if the guy is one of the serial abusers who beats the shit out of his wife because dinner was overrdone or the carpet was messy, thats a league of its own. The two situations really arent comparable.
I'm not excusing the first scenario, but motive does matter and it should be the difference between a 1-2 or 5+ year sentence.
Or...the guy is the guy in the second scenario and she runs to someone else to feel some sense of what it's like to be with someone who isn't a maniac...