I've read some horrifying things from people during this #metoo movement. I've also known plenty of women who have been raped and it's fucking god awful to imagine. On the other hand I had some crazy bitch I rejected try to tell a BUNCH of people I slapped her around to ruin my reputation. She fucked up by naming the time and date I "did it". I was at a popular bar, on a date at the time so everyone told her to shut the fuck up and called her crazy. I've also had two girls fake preggo before. Shit's fucking nuts.
I don't think we should immediately discount or shift blame onto an accuser, but I also believe that we're guilty until proven innocent.. it's a conundrum.