Was this supposed to disprove the fact that recipients of inheritances didn't work for that money and feel entitled to it anyway?
You seem to think that just because dad says so that you're different. Well my mom (not grandmother) acknowledges the racial strife she grew up with, that the effects are still present, and entrusted me with the legacy of her generation. Why are you not entitled while I am?
Either we're both entitled (and we need to pump up that estate tax to get that money out of your pockets that you didn't earn), or neither of us is entitled and the lady in the OP is a dipshit. Pick your poison.