Did I just cheat on my wife?

Honestly, thought @Clippy would start this kind of thread before anyone else...
 
Considering you are doing emotional cheating, rather than physical cheating, prepare for her to lose her fucking shit.
 
k1ngjester said:
Honestly, thought @Clippy would start this kind of thread before anyone else...
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CLippy would never cheat. He loves his wife and could never find a woman another woman to celebrate his Clippiness.
 
If you can't tell her,,,,,,you know you are.
 
SidJustice said:
CLippy would never cheat. He loves his wife and could never find a woman another woman to celebrate his Clippiness.
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Well... Let me clarify. I believe @Clippy, if he shared a dirty joke with some random woman, had wronged his lady.

That is how much he loves his wife.
 
I mean, what could possibly go wrong marrying a woman who you can't have good sex with?
 
SidJustice said:
Considering you are doing emotional cheating, rather than physical cheating, prepare for her to lose her fucking shit.
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This. Studies have shown that women dislike the idea of their man falling in love with another woman much more than just having sex with them. Men were found to be the opposite.

Is normal.
 
ripskater said:
I can't see that being true.
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Confirmation bias is strong with you, but that's okay.

You're right, in a way, but even the spouses who cite porn as cheating don't equate it to cheating-cheating. They call it cheating because of a false sense of ownership, which digresses into "cheating" as sort of strawman argument to reinforced the emotional reaction (look up ATTACHMENT and EXPECTATION). "I don't like this, so I will call it 'cheating' so I can legitimately hate it even more."

Strawmen and ad hominems are brought to fore -- namely because that's how we argue when we got no legs to stand on -- avoiding the critical issue: cheating is not absolute. It MUST be negotiated within the couple. BOTH parties must have some say in the determination. We can talk about degrees and definitions all day long, but to say that wives consider porn to be cheating is a very limited, and risible thought. Which is good if it keeps you on the straight and narrow, but it won't hold up in social court. I mean, we know what you mean, but yeah we're kinda beyond the perspective of one person, let alone one hypothetical group that's only here because you brought them to agree with you.
 
EndlessCritic said:
Wife isn't into kinky shit.

Messaged girl on fetlife.com a few days ago to have lunch and talk kink.

We had lunch and talked kink today. I paid.

Discuss.
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What you and your wife should have done is get to know each other better sexually before you were married, when your relationship was in the beginning stages. "Feeling each other out" so to speak to see what you're both into or not into.

Now you're in kind of a precarious position where you have sexual tastes that don't mesh and that has the potential to turn into a sensitive and unstable dynamic that can put a big strain on things.

All I can say is good luck.
 
Life is too short to stay with someone who isnt giving you what you want. Do you think a woman would just accept it if you werent giving her the goods she wanted? You'd be gone or she'd be fuckin some guys behind your back on the regular
 
Look for TS to wind up getting found in some hotel tied up and robbed...
 
I bet you don't even know what kinky is.
Your little vanilla mind cant understand all the flavors.
 
You're basically setting it up for sex at a future date. You're not cheating yet, but clearly two steps away from it.
 
Like my man @Clippy said, if you have to ask.

My wife knows that I'll watch some porn while taking a #3. She doesn't care one bit.
 
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