Did I just cheat on my wife? | Page 2

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  1. CrimsonFan Silver Belt

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    Oh I see


    She's not willing to play along at all? Maybe it makes her think of you as being.. I dunno, less alpha?
     
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  2. Roca Yellow Card

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  3. CrimsonFan Silver Belt

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    Divorce is the answer here guys. I figured it out
     
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  4. weich Silver Belt

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    I don't think you cheated on your wife. I think you betrayed your wife while actively taking steps to cheat on her.
     
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  5. HelloJapan Talking loud and saying nothing.

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  6. Jack Reacheround Never Go Black

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    For once, you and I are in total agreement.
     
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  7. BisexualMMA Don't Put My Name in the Name of Steroids!

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    Paying money to talk kink? I think your wife will probably just have my reaction and be slightly confused.
     
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    TS you are dabbling with the dark arts here.

    The ramifications of which could spell disaster if taken any further.

    Heed thy words!
     
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  9. ripskater Steel Belt

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    https://www.thespruce.com/before-ending-your-marriage-over-porn-2303585

     
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  10. Gutter Chris Black Belt

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    Most wives try not to think of porn at all and you could debate on how out of line it is on a scale I guess

    Going out to lunch to talk dirty to a chick is going to be even further down the scale and while porn probably wont cause you much real grief I would bet money if Ol dudes wife new he was out talkin nasty with some bitch she would be much angrier .


    I would recommend to the married guys to try to remember that you are committed and that you should probably try to uphold your vows. My wife is not the best lay I have ever had but I cant hold that against her and go get it somewhere else that isnt how it works. You cant have everything and if you wanted everything as an option than you shouldnt have made the commitment. If you cant uphold your vows for moral reasons than do it for financial .

    My advise would be to show your wife some respect and dont do it again


    Also Grow up
     
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    my gf would have considered it cheating for just thinking about possibly signing up for fetlife int he first place, never mind all that other shit you did that would have probably led toa full blown physical assault on her part.
     
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    Divorce in your future bud
     
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    True. But I do believe I'm correct.

    I have never gotten the feeling that women like it if their husband was into pornography.
     
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  15. weich Silver Belt

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    I could be wrong, but I don't think this was some sort of kink based therapy session, but rather a meeting where you find out how much it costs to have your kinks fulfilled.
     
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    Just "talked" lol, righttttt!
     
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    I can certainly see how women would, in general, view their husband viewing porn differently than the husband

    Men are much more physical in their sexual desire, so if they didn't get physical then they wouldn't tend to view that is doing anything.

    Women are more psychological / mental, so they would be more likely to view this under those terms, where the man is mentally cheating on them.

    /armchairpsychology
     
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  18. Revolver you sound poor

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    Not sure how you can live with yourself after this. You should tell your wife.
     
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    Being sneaky like that never ends well TS. Either get your wife to step up or get a divorce if you can't quench your freaky desires
     
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  20. faustian THE LOOSE CANNON

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    That's probably technically not cheating. But one thing's for sure, is that your wife has cheated on you. This topic is now open for discussion...
     
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