Start with yourself and jump off the nearest bridge.
Maybe he just needs to rethink the "tree falls in a forest" riddle.
It's not "getting them drunk" when they brew the brew.
I feel bereft of what seduction is like for most of my fellow men.
Alas... I am tall, very handsome, have kind yet fearsome eyes, possess a low yet warm voice, and speak with compassion as well as strength. Add to that, my profession is well respected by everyone who "matters,", and I am in the business of ideas, or as young women see it, dreams.
I honestly, honestly do not mean that as pure satire, either. I have a very positive view of women, because they are anxious to be my acolytes, my listeners, my team mates in all kinds of things. But if I start to believe that is right, just, or true then I become the greatest of imbeciles, because it is not the normal, and not what nature is usually like.
Then when some "average" man has woman troubles, I might look down on him unfairly, or think... "what a desperate fool..." when it is in fact I who miss the reality, who would consider a blessing as pride, a special way of seeing things as "the" way of seeing things. I quickly become the fool, and stumble blindly into trouble, as all fools do in different ways.
The truth is not so simple if I or anyone wishes to be wise, and whether the man who is lowly in the eyes of women, or adulated in the eyes of women, we all have a responsibility to women.
To treat them kindly.
If a man that women see poorly, that we not cheat to get her attentions, if a man that women see beautifully, to not cheat them all. To bring them welfare, that we all have peace between woman and man.