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  1. Doughbelly αlpha-nerdette, action scientist

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    Pug, you are a wordy motherfucker.
     
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  2. Pugilistic Black Belt

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    I was hoping for some other insight than what I already know, but time and working on other myself is the only way perhaps.

    From my experience it's taken far less than that. Which is why I think it's done a number on me.

    No doubt. @Losfer Words said I'm trying to say in one sentence. Should work on this.

    Absolutely not. Tempted though..

    For all the things she has said to me, she has never called me that. ;)
     
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  3. FacePunch Double Yellow Card

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    You're not that intelligent, and you should probably be sterilized.
     
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  4. koolinkunming Silver Belt

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    Sometimes the heart just wants what it wants and you never get over it.......unless of course you find someone who's waaaaayy better who lights your hair on fire. You need that.
     
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  5. Eazy123 Brown Belt

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    All I can tell you is stop the drinking. No matter how much it may numb the thoughts and pain, It'll keep you dwelling on her and hamper any healing.

    There's also no shame in seeing a therapist. I did.

    "Banging random sloots" is neither alpha nor a solution.
     
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    bro I am so sorry. I know exactly what you mean by having ptsd and flashbacks over a girl. I'm really sorry this is happening to you. :( . All I can say is it will fade with time. You just have to practice not thinking about her. Find some hobby like guitar to immerse yourself in whenever bad thoughts come into your mind. I used to play guitar alot and really helped get through some hard times when i was sad.
     
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  7. GSP_37 Gold Belt

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    She don't like you. She don't want you. Why you like her?
     
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    That's some real typical nerd-ass (not smart kind) internet talk there. Nice job.
     
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  9. Pugilistic Black Belt

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    Yeah, I'm cutting back on drinking. It's also really hurting my wallet as well. I am not opposed to therapy but I'm too poor for it right now.
     
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  10. DeepCover Brown Belt

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    Focus on all the negative bullshit you had to deal with, all the fights and shitty things she's done and said, and the fact that she's simply a bad match for you.

    If you're focusing on the tits, ass and pussy...well, there's plenty of that out there. Plenty that comes with less bullshit. No relationship is BS free, but you can minimize that shit with a girl that's a better match.
     
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  11. Phr3121 Purple Belt

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    Cry me a river brother. Been there myself. As my buddy used to say in Ranger school, and it really stuck: "Fair is for the weak, learn to control your inner bitch." You'll get over it. Good luck...
     
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  12. west42 Purple Belt

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    God damn dude, this shit seems like something a chick wrote after a breakup while on her period.
    Theres no excuse for a man to get this upset over losing a companion.

    Unless it's his dog of course.

     
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