Can't get over Ex

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  1. DespicablePeep

    DespicablePeep Brown Belt

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    Don´t try to replace that feeling with other woman get some Chinese shit type of treatment, do some acupuncture relax. You probably stressed out and still holding to something that is worthless, losing woman that we don´t even want is bad too.

    But I did not read what you wrote too much text fuck that
     
  2. Cint

    Cint Titanium Belt Platinum Member

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    Go back to Japan and you'll easily forget your Ex. Sake, sushi, ramen and hot girls awaits your return.
     
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  3. EL CORINTHIAN

    EL CORINTHIAN Brown Belt

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    Time will take care of this but there are two outcomes. either you spend that time in a positive way and walk away with more weaponry then before or you squander that time and it disarms you to the point where it affects your dating life. Either way she will slowly fade as time passes and the place in your heart that you reserved for her will start freezing over. I'll be honest i didn't read the entirety of your post but it seems like you are the one who ended things and im assuming it's for the better. It's your decision and now you have to live with it.

    I dealt with something similar the past year and let me tell you it may take more than 6 months but you have to spend your time well.

    Perhaps but i choose to believe this is a normal process of moving on which is a good thing on your part.

    When you catch yourself reminiscing about the relationship i want you to repeat this line over and over until she disappears.

    Love is a drug (oxytocin) and like any drug/habit you have a pattern burned into your sub-conscious. It's terribly difficult to get rid of the withdrawals but in time these little flash backs will go away as well. Just remember it's you doing this not her. Remind yourself that it's all in your head since it really is.

    believe it or not you should have given these two things their own seperate time and reversed the order. When you first break up forget fucking girls for a while and trying to jump back on the horse. After a bad relationship we usually lose our identities and need to reclaim it through introspection. When people jump straight back into the game they are like lost little ghosts who don't have a purpose. Take your time, build yourself back up and then give these bitches the upgraded version when you know what it is you really want. How can you expect to be making emotional connections when your head isn't on right? Focus on being happy with the man you are and when you are ready......that's when you start laying pipe.



    My favourite line in that was
    "You must look into that storm and shout as you did in Rome. Do your worst, for I will do mine! Then the fates will know you as we know you: as Pugilistic, the man!"
     
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  4. ithinktheymad

    ithinktheymad Black Belt

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    I know that feel TS. Been getting some quality bangs in the past few weeks then TWTGA hit me up this morning and I was thinking kids and white picket fences all day.
     
  5. Ikuza

    Ikuza Purple Belt

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    For someone who isn't over their ex, you seriously put in a lot of time trying to get under someone else.
     
  6. Strychnine

    Strychnine Gold Belt

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    NOW...

    You have time to work on yourself. Hit the gym, take some classes, and hang out with some GOOD friends.

    You'll get over her.

    I'm praying for you man.
     
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  7. j123

    j123 Pro Sherdogger 500-0-1

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    Don't worry bro, Banchan has us all by the balls too.

    Get over her by plowing other Boise dimes
     
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  8. mushishi

    mushishi A is a, a is a, should I save her?

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    "Randomly" meet her on the street like this:

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    and say this:

    "I can't see 'em comin down my eyes
    So I gotta make the song cry"

    Then do this:

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  9. Cantalope

    Cantalope Brown Belt

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    Running/Biking. Any kind of exercise will help. Also hang out with friends and find other chicks to bang.
     
  10. punkmother

    punkmother calf cruncher fan

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    you need a vision quest. battle ropes and trail running until you see dead relatives.
     
  11. genecop

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    Time with yourself to work on personal shit works...
    Or the option I always used, another women.....

    Both approaches are said to work, but the second one is the quick feel good fix..
     
  12. Anung Un Rama

    Anung Un Rama The Right Hand of Doom Platinum Member

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  13. Al Gorithm

    Al Gorithm Black Belt

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    Didn't read a word of the op , but the answer is to stay busy and time . You can get over anything with those 2.
     
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  14. Harbour

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    Lots of people solved this for you already TS. Time heals all wounds blah blah, it's all true.

    Also remember my motto: Nothing is ever as bad as it seems.
     
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  15. Yellowking

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    It's a self respect issue. All that fighting and bs, calling you little dick and shit like that...who the hell wants that? Just tell yourself that you deserve way better, all of the good parts and none of the shitty. It's out there and you can't find it if you're stuck on some ol bitchy ho.
     
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  16. bubbleboyjones

    bubbleboyjones Belt Purple

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    Usually by far the fastest way is to get involved with a much higher status girl which is much easier said than done. Usually the guys that linger on with attachment issues with their exes are in a situation where they haven't found anyone higher status(looks/personality/social standing..etc) hence causing this lingering attachment that they can't get over.
     
  17. Noodles03

    Noodles03 Blue Belt

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    You can always time travel and undo your mistakes.
    <Manning1>
     
  18. NoGoodNamesLeft

    NoGoodNamesLeft Brown Belt

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    just find a girl that looks just like her
     
  19. Jack Reacheround

    Jack Reacheround Never Go Black

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    I would have to think I travelled to an alternate universe if there wasn't a Pugilistic thread about girls and heartbreak.
     
  20. Amerikuracana

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    Underrated.
     

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