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  1. Strange King Strange Music

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    Bro, many people have been through with what you have been through and the simple answer is time.

    I know that sucks to hear but don't beat yourself up about not breaking up soon enough or really anything that you might of done in the relationship. You have to really know yourself and refuse to ever put yourself in that situation again. You have to get out and meet women but be picky with ones you want to be with.

    I went through a similar situation and I stayed to long because we had a kid and man I tried very hard. It took awhile to stop messing with her and move on.

    I messed with a lot of girls after that but it took years to find my wife. The lesson I learned is that if you truly learn from the mistakes from this relationship the next good one you choose will have a better you
     
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  3. Phlog Black Belt

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  4. John Wang Double Yellow Card

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    Ben, you need become a physical dominance person!! Hit the gym and fack many a woman until your ex becomes a distant memory in your memory bank! GET IN GYM AND DOMINATE
     
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    I broke up with one about 9 months ago I still think about. I have another girl preggers right now, but it doesn't matter. We were mates and bonded.. Alcohol took her away.
     
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  6. 22k Haiku Expert

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    dude, I've fucked with you in the past about this, but real talk..

    is that like your thing? like fetish or something? you have tons of children with many different women.

    this ain't me busting balls - just honestly asking.
     
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  7. Amerikuracana Titanium Belt

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    My intelligence allows me to realize how soon I'll be dead. I don't mind kids in general.

    This one is a little rough. It's the first time I EVER kind of wish she wasn't pregnant. Thats with a total of 8 (or 9, we don't know) girls pregnant.
     
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  8. Bobby Boulders My Lovin' Is Digi

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    I'm there with you, bud. I can't get over mine either.
     
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  9. esum80 MAU-RRRICI-O...SHO-GUNN!!!

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    my previous relationship was very much a roller-coaster (NEVER date a psychiatrist/psychotherapist)

    she was very manipulative and always wanted to be in control. we argued almost every week near the end and i finally got fed up and broke it off and more or less had her move out. similar to your situation, she didn't want to end things even though she threatened breaking up with me numerous times. i blocked her after she sent me 100s of angry texts filled with expletives and some of the most demeaning shit that i've ever had directed at me.

    if someone loves you and respects you, they will never ever say that shit to you to hurt you on purpose. it's just not healthy. life is too short to subject yourself to that sort of verbal and mental abuse. why should you give a fuck about her if she doesn't give a fuck about you and how you feel? be with someone that you get along with and like. sounds like the new girl is good so far but you might be ruining it by hanging on to your past. onwards and upwards, friend. you will never see the light if you hold onto the dark.
     
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  10. Almighty Angus Silver Belt

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    The best way to get over it, is to stop being down, open up and see other people, and try to find someone that makes you feel the same way, or better than your ex did.

    Either this, or hard drugs and alcohol.
     
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    Get an 8 ball, a bottle of jack and have some fun.

    Wake up, dust yourself off and forget about her dude.

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  12. Noodles03 Blue Belt

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  13. Revolver you sound poor

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    Its easy. Find someone better.
     
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  14. djacobox372 Gold Belt

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    In my experience it takes about a year to get over a LTR, in that time do not get in another relationship! And it's best to stay away from dating in general.

    Women can smell the depression and vulnerability on you and the kind of skanks that are attracted to that are not someone you want to end up falling for.
     
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    Took me awhile to find a pic of your ex, but I finally found it. I have bad news for you, bro. She's a pornographic beauty

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  16. Secret Agent MANNY DIXON-DIÁZ

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    Time isn't going to help.

    A year and a half means you don't want to get over it.

    It's funny, in that not-funny way, when we want things but do not like them. We cling to them because maybe we want to punish ourselves or feel we deserve unlikable things.

    We must decide to want something else, which may feel hollow because, well, we don't really want anything else. Or fear new consequences.

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    In which case, we need to make the decision anyway. Not based on emotion, since the emotion will only keep us rooted in the same place to rot, but based on sensible reason.

    And the reason will evolve, but that doesn't matter as long as you use that reason like a carrot leading a horse. The initial reason could be as simple as acknowledging your feelings and your need to express them. Then the reason can be asking yourself, "How much longer is this expression going to do it for me?" Then process by process, day by day, you lead yourself to freedom, out from inside of yourself.

    But only if you want to, you understand. You're already doing what you want to do, even if you don't much like it -- so essentially you'd be doing the same thing you're doing now. Just wanting something else.
     
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    It's been 6 months playa
     
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  18. Secret Agent MANNY DIXON-DIÁZ

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    Honestly ...
     
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    Why does this guy make relationship trying to goo up with chick threads all the time ? Something doesn't add up.
     
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