Hey, thanks for taking the time to write out a lengthy response. Appreciate it. I have a little trouble getting which parts are levelled at me/my post, and which are broader commentary in keeping with the thread theme so if I respond to something and have misread you please feel free to point out my mistake.
Well bashing a poor person only for being poor is stupid. As a non-US citizen, is this absolutely rife with conservatives? I come across it a fair bit online, just thought it was part of the smartass Internet community, throwing out insulting buzzwords all the time.
Anyway, a poor person should not be demeaned only for being poor. Similarly a stupid person who is born without a great brain shouldn't be mocked for being less clever. But a smart person who behaves stupidly and should have known better deserves criticism, and a fit, intelligent person who is responsible for their own poverty due to a gambling addiction or unwillingness to work also should be criticised, I feel.
Not a minimum standard, that would be unfair. But the point is, how could one know how things will turn out. I was destitute less than ten years ago and am relatively wealthy today - part good fortune, part hard work - I would never have forseen my current status only a few years ago. Circumstances simply aren't that predictable.
But even if I were still poor, that's no guarantee of unhappiness or unproductivity.
I'm guessing this segment is directed to conservatives in general. I can say that I do not think people who are very poor and have no prospects should be having children. It seems unwise. In that situation if a couple wants to have sex they should use contraception. The sex-ed programs here cover contraception options fairly thoroughly from pills/condoms/IUDs through to hormone injections. From reading the thread it sounds like there is no federal curriculum in the US and that states are individually responsible for what is taught on the subject.
Since people are going to have sex, explaining the options for contraception, potential diseases and other important information seems like common sense.
Condom distribution is limited? Do you have a source on the topic? I'd like to read it. Contraception is never 100% foolproof. If the people having sex are educated and understand that then I'd suggest that's their assumption of risk. If pregnancy resulted two people made a choice, and one person (potential or actual) would be given no choice. Killing that person (potential or actual) who had none of the pleasure and no say in the matter is not moral.
Obviously sex/child rearing in a stable environment is the ideal. How does that stop poor people from having sex though! Poor people can get married too.
"You people"? I don't think we know each other well enough for you to make such a broad statement.
While I have fairly conservative values by the standards of my country, I'd be very close to centre in the US. While I myself am a Christian and have certain beliefs about morals, it's important to understand not everyone (not many?) share my views, and government policy needs to address the needs of the society being governed. That includes forming legislation recognising homosexual civil unions and the like.