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Do you know of anybody who retired from being a bad ass?
I have heard of some great masters who no longer train with their stud purple or even blue belts. Their bodies just can't keep up with the speed and athleticism of the new kids on the block. It seems to happen to people in their fifties. My forties were a time of accepting all who asked to roll. I competed at plenty ibjjf tournaments. I trained with top notch mma fighters, world champion black belts, heel hook specialists, college wrestlers, and even the dreaded big white belt spaz. My body has been wrecked plenty.
The only instructional video I ever bought was Roy Harris's bjj over 40. I enjoyed it, but I didn't take Mr. Harris's advice. I learned spider guard, de la riva, rdlr, and any other new technique that made your fingers hurt and your back ache.
I am not quite ready to pass the reigns to the youngsters yet, but I can see the edge of the horizon. We have a 17 year old blue belt that weighs 240 lbs, trains 5-6 times per week, and has a killer spider guard. He's a humble little bastard as well. Always shaking my hand, being a good listener, learns quickly. He deadlifts over 400 lbs and doesn't even have his man muscles yet. It's only a matter of time before he starts smashing me.
I know this is an ego issue. I can't pressure myself to be a badass forever. A part of me just wants to get it over with already. I am a young 50. I still have some good miles left. I want to move to the next stage with some dignity and grace. When the time comes, I want to be ready to let go. I know a lot of older black belts who just disappeared. I don't think they could handle not being in the top echelon.
Maybe there will be a Jiu jitsu retirement home one day. Instead of bingo and rice pudding we'll have acai and some slow rolling. Anyway, I am putting this out there to see if anybody else or they know somebody else who is going through something similar.
Thanks
I have heard of some great masters who no longer train with their stud purple or even blue belts. Their bodies just can't keep up with the speed and athleticism of the new kids on the block. It seems to happen to people in their fifties. My forties were a time of accepting all who asked to roll. I competed at plenty ibjjf tournaments. I trained with top notch mma fighters, world champion black belts, heel hook specialists, college wrestlers, and even the dreaded big white belt spaz. My body has been wrecked plenty.
The only instructional video I ever bought was Roy Harris's bjj over 40. I enjoyed it, but I didn't take Mr. Harris's advice. I learned spider guard, de la riva, rdlr, and any other new technique that made your fingers hurt and your back ache.
I am not quite ready to pass the reigns to the youngsters yet, but I can see the edge of the horizon. We have a 17 year old blue belt that weighs 240 lbs, trains 5-6 times per week, and has a killer spider guard. He's a humble little bastard as well. Always shaking my hand, being a good listener, learns quickly. He deadlifts over 400 lbs and doesn't even have his man muscles yet. It's only a matter of time before he starts smashing me.
I know this is an ego issue. I can't pressure myself to be a badass forever. A part of me just wants to get it over with already. I am a young 50. I still have some good miles left. I want to move to the next stage with some dignity and grace. When the time comes, I want to be ready to let go. I know a lot of older black belts who just disappeared. I don't think they could handle not being in the top echelon.
Maybe there will be a Jiu jitsu retirement home one day. Instead of bingo and rice pudding we'll have acai and some slow rolling. Anyway, I am putting this out there to see if anybody else or they know somebody else who is going through something similar.
Thanks