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Here's the deal.
Over the last while - my shape hasn't been great.
When I say last while - I mean, about 2 years.
Lately, I'm getting stronger and fitter - and thus, able to grapple harder.
With some guys, they seem to relish having a training partner that can challenge them and expose holes in their game etc.
BUT - I've noticed with, what I previously assumed were cool'ish guys - they've become quite bitchy, if I'm close to tapping them, defend a good attempt on their part - or if I tap them.
By example - I tapped this guy during the week; first time I'd ever tapped him.
He used to rag doll me when my shape wasn't good.
Motherfucker then went on to pretend I injured his arm - which was total bullshit, cause on a kimura, I only barely torqued it.
He just couldn't stand that I'd tapped him and wanted to bitch about something.
Another guy tonight; he used to fucking rag doll me - nasty collar chokes - real fuckin' "big brother" behavior.
Tonight, I'm feeling stronger - I take it to him.
He went into a rant after the round, about use of dangerous techniques, again - total bullshit.
I could just tell he was super irate that I'd just taken it to him.
I mean - super irate.
He actually hung about after the class, trying to mad-dog me.
And I'd stake my sneakers he stayed behind, bitching to the coach about me (which he probably loved - cause he doesn't really like me either).
Point is - some people tout a lot of bullshit, fair play and improving, not just getting the win or tap or beating your training partner.
And what I'm seeing now is - ego is a huge fuckin' thing with these fools.
They obviously got their jollies thinking they could man-handle me (which previously, they could), and now they're butt hurt I'm taken it to them.
I mean - what do you do with people like that?
Actual question.
Just avoid them?
Continue to take it to them and throw down for real if it goes too far??
Wut??
Over the last while - my shape hasn't been great.
When I say last while - I mean, about 2 years.
Lately, I'm getting stronger and fitter - and thus, able to grapple harder.
With some guys, they seem to relish having a training partner that can challenge them and expose holes in their game etc.
BUT - I've noticed with, what I previously assumed were cool'ish guys - they've become quite bitchy, if I'm close to tapping them, defend a good attempt on their part - or if I tap them.
By example - I tapped this guy during the week; first time I'd ever tapped him.
He used to rag doll me when my shape wasn't good.
Motherfucker then went on to pretend I injured his arm - which was total bullshit, cause on a kimura, I only barely torqued it.
He just couldn't stand that I'd tapped him and wanted to bitch about something.
Another guy tonight; he used to fucking rag doll me - nasty collar chokes - real fuckin' "big brother" behavior.
Tonight, I'm feeling stronger - I take it to him.
He went into a rant after the round, about use of dangerous techniques, again - total bullshit.
I could just tell he was super irate that I'd just taken it to him.
I mean - super irate.
He actually hung about after the class, trying to mad-dog me.
And I'd stake my sneakers he stayed behind, bitching to the coach about me (which he probably loved - cause he doesn't really like me either).
Point is - some people tout a lot of bullshit, fair play and improving, not just getting the win or tap or beating your training partner.
And what I'm seeing now is - ego is a huge fuckin' thing with these fools.
They obviously got their jollies thinking they could man-handle me (which previously, they could), and now they're butt hurt I'm taken it to them.
I mean - what do you do with people like that?
Actual question.
Just avoid them?
Continue to take it to them and throw down for real if it goes too far??
Wut??