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So, I've read a similar statistic somewhere. But I don't remember it being that high. Do you have a source?
Oh na I just made it up
So, I've read a similar statistic somewhere. But I don't remember it being that high. Do you have a source?
Someone actually took a survey at some point in time. I either read about it or heard about it on something and I can't remember where. It or course wasn't 90%. But it definitely was higher than you would think.Oh na I just made it up
Like 90% of people that have kids wish they didn't. That's an actual stat. Oh they'll say it's the best shit ever, but it's just thinly held self delusion for survival. They've been screaming inside their mind since that kid was born.
The % is probably about even with those who regret NOT having kids...and likely just a "grass is greener on the other side" deal. I would also venture to guess that the vast majority of those who regret having kids are divorced. I don't know anyone happily married who regrets having kids. Of course, there's not that many people happily married! hahaSomeone actually took a survey at some point in time. I either read about it or heard about it on something and I can't remember where. It or course wasn't 90%. But it definitely was higher than you would think.
You don't think most people ever have any what if thoughts ?
Y. I have a hard time buying that deep down most people are not at least really curious what its like to have a healthy relationship with an offspring. Its a fairly deeply ingrained biological impulse.
How would you know. Some shitty people are changed for the better after having kids. A healthy society should value having and raising kids. Its ine of the most valuable thing you can do as a human being.But would you be willing to admit that there are some people in this world that shouldn't reproduce?
How would you know. Some shitty people are changed for the better after having kids. A healthy society should value having and raising kids. Its ine of the most valuable thing you can do as a human being.
Most people have what if thoughts on a variety of things in life. Doesnt mean any of them revolve around the prospect of having children.
a study of a few thousand people who decided not to have kids showed them to be happy with their decision even into advanced age.
http://sciencenordic.com/older-people-just-happy-without-children
And yet here we are with people who have no urge for offspring. I came from a good family as well so theres no psychological analysis that can be deduced to explain why. I simply have not had any urge to. Its never simply been there.
lol... Casey AnthonyWho is she?
But seriously, would.
Who is she?
But seriously, would.
Perhaps spoilt because of bad parenting, or just a c nt.
She killed her own daughter because she was getting in the way of partying.
Of course they say that. Would they really admit to themselves, or you, that it was a mistake and they hate it? That's a mistake that comes with an 18 year commitment at least. People have a hard enough time admitting they were in the wrong if they rear end someone.
Don't be a dummy. We all lived withiut kids and remember not wanting them. I was 33 before I had my first.So, how would you know just how awesome it is to never have kids? Because it's pretty awesome. And you have no basis for comparison except for maybe your early twenties, which is vastly different than being in your 30s with no kids, or your 40s.