Did you finally watch the movie and notice the nazis? I noticed you're not spazzing about them anymore. Congrats on watching the First Avenger Mr. War of 1812.
You're trying to argue with me about concepts you don't even understand. Trying to sate bloodlust isn't heroic. Lol at "rules of vendetta." That doesn't even make you a man, that makes you the equivalent of a gangbanger or a thug. Welcome to the ghetto. Maybe you haven't noticed, but Cap and T'Challa were trying to stop the cycle of violence. Do I think Cap would have murdered Happy Hogan? No. He would have tried to rehabilitate him. He could have cut off Stark's head for all the crazy shit he did do, Tony Stark, the person you called the villain of AoU. But he didn't. He let Stark imprison himself in his mind and gave him a phone. You don't blame Zemo, but you feel he needed the villain comeuppance. Don't try to weasel out now. You know him and Stark are parallel characters. You can claim gangbanger code guides them and claim it to be man code all you want but they're the villains.
Tony comes back a little when Rhodey gets crippled. He knows he's going too far. That's why he only knocks out Falcon at that point. That's why he decides to meet Cap at the facility. But then he loses his mind again. As I keep saying, it's a story of a guy going from hero to villain due to the erosion of his mind. He doesn't even know where Vision is after Civil War. It's well done by Marvel and RDJ.
Tony needs to start a family because he's only going to have more friends if he makes them, with a woman on his pay roll. He needs that level of control of his out of control life. He found Spidey first and made a kid fist fight Cap, but the way Spidey acts is more like Cap. Then he tries to control Spidey by bribing him with tech.
Maybe you're twisted enough that you think being a genius, billionaire, playboy, philanthropist makes you a good man. Philanthropist could be a symptom of being a good man, it could also be a symptom of being a billionaire. A billionaire that made his money war profiteering. It's a great comeback line in avengers. But we find out it's his curse over the course of the rest of the MCU. He has book smarts, money, employees, women, women that are employees but his ability to dictate his moral compass is lost. He goes from the star hero of the show to a villian and now a lonely loser. That's his tragedy. Can he come back? Cap gave him that option. Cap didn't chop off his head and give in to the cycle of violence.
As for what Cap has. Maybe you didn't see First Avenger after all: