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I'm still processing everything as I've been "under" his instruction for 25% of my life basically. It would have been 8 years with him in a few weeks. I went White-Black under him, had our differences of opinions at times where I have almost quit 3-4 times over the years.
Go back about 18 months ago I moved from Arlington Tx back to Irving (both inside DFW) but I also was remodeling that house, planning a wedding, etc. So the drive/traffic cut my training from 4 times a week to maybe once a week. I started cross training more at lunch open mats (near my work in Irving) as well as found a gym 1 mile from my house with a very reasonable drop in rate.
3 months ago I got the opportunity to open my own school, literally fell in my lap. I'm now teaching classes 5 days a week between that as well as another school I get paid per class, wife is expecting and I'm flat out busy. My membership agreement was up so I did not renew.
Got the phonecall of "lets talk about an affiliation" and I decided not to go with him. We have a different philosophy on BJJ/Life and business so it wasn't a good fit (plus was not cost friendly for the benefits). Really just rambling but at this point I am a "free agent" persay, and feel good about my decisions. It still feels a little bit like a break up with a girlfriend after being so long under him and he did a great job of teaching me BJJ thru purple. After that you really take on your own training and I have some guys (the guys in Irving) who've helped me to that next level personally.
Don't know what the point is, just felt like sharing.
Go back about 18 months ago I moved from Arlington Tx back to Irving (both inside DFW) but I also was remodeling that house, planning a wedding, etc. So the drive/traffic cut my training from 4 times a week to maybe once a week. I started cross training more at lunch open mats (near my work in Irving) as well as found a gym 1 mile from my house with a very reasonable drop in rate.
3 months ago I got the opportunity to open my own school, literally fell in my lap. I'm now teaching classes 5 days a week between that as well as another school I get paid per class, wife is expecting and I'm flat out busy. My membership agreement was up so I did not renew.
Got the phonecall of "lets talk about an affiliation" and I decided not to go with him. We have a different philosophy on BJJ/Life and business so it wasn't a good fit (plus was not cost friendly for the benefits). Really just rambling but at this point I am a "free agent" persay, and feel good about my decisions. It still feels a little bit like a break up with a girlfriend after being so long under him and he did a great job of teaching me BJJ thru purple. After that you really take on your own training and I have some guys (the guys in Irving) who've helped me to that next level personally.
Don't know what the point is, just felt like sharing.