I want to joke that it's because we're all child molesters, but I might get fired.
It's too easy to go after this guy. It's that opportunistic moral high ground shit that I can't stand, and I hate when I fall for it myself.
Just to give an example:
It's way creepier to me when people complain too loudly about the way kids dress than it is to hear people making crude jokes about abusing them. Yet, the person complaining suspiciously will be praised until it gets really uncomfortable, while the person making the joke will be vilified.
This is one of the ways that so many family members and authorities get away with abusing kids. They just have to be over-the-top indignant, make sure to string up a few witches now and then, and they're free to abuse without being caught for a long time.
This guy may or may not be an abuser. He has a couple of associations that can be made to sound suspicious, but there's not actually anything there. So until people produce something real, the probability that he is just a crude ass is overwhelmingly likely.
In a sense, I see this as kind of an IQ test, and also a test of integrity. If people are taking the position that the company should/could just cut ties with him because they don't want to associate with this, that seems reasonable. But I think they cede too much ground. It's time to stop retreating and dig in.