Originally Posted by Sir Burton
Girl talks to you?
She totally wants you.
That's the rule.
This, it's true, however not always easy to understand or realise.
For example, I am having doubts myself. I was on holiday in Ibiza 2 weeks back and I hit it off with a girl. She spends the last 3 days at my hotel basically. Now, what's got me is that this girl is 21 (I'm 29), hot blonde, slim, drives a fast car, has a good job and is very self confident - me on the other hand, am 29, worn out for a previous relationship, in a job that I'm vastly over qualified for, am back living at my parents after a horrible break up this year and am a bit direction-less. I'd say my only real qualities are that I'm considered above average good looks, I'm good at jiujitsu and playing guitar and I've got a solid physique. So what gives?
I ask my buddies at work and they are like, 'Andy, she likes you because you are a dude' - hmmm?, I don't buy it...
She's invited herself to my place this weekend and is driving 200+ miles to see me.
It sounds like I'm having the same realisation doubts as the TS.