Originally Posted by NEMMAFan
Just wanted to get some advice on this. Most of the time I'm a guy who is lucky to get a date. However I find myself dating two women at the same time however I'm not committed to either one. I met the first girl on eharmony.com and we chatted via phone and e-mail for 3 months before we went on our first date at the begining of the 4th month. We have gone on two dates and have had a great time and we have already planned a 3rd date. All that has happened between us is a little bit of kissing and holding hands. She wants to take things slow which I'm 100% ok with.
Girl number 2 asked me out of the blue telling me she liked me and we have gone out on our first date with the 2nd one being planned. Again I'm not committed to either one and we are just dating but I feel like a prick for doing this. Both women and I are looking for a long term relationship. I'm hoping for something more serious down the road with he girl I met online. Obviously if something serious happened between us I would stop seeing the 2nd girl. Being a guy who doesn't date that much I want to know if this is wrong or should I not worry about it and have fun?
Well, you're in undefined stage still, but it's likely not going to last much longer. If either girl is emotionally mature & self-respecting, she's going to want to have the 'are we exclusive' conversation soon. So get ready to man up and make a decision. Or get ready to man up and initiate that conversation if need be.
Would YOU be okay with THEM dating other people right now?